The Affect of Life on Celebrations in My Life
So the director of the play that CJ has decided to be techie for has just dropped his script off. I swear he does it on purpose – Cj has just sat talking at me about this play – I DON’T CARE YOU ARE DOING IT RATHER THAN CELEBRATING MY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!! Get it into your head i don’t want to know about it.
Valentines day last year CJ was stuck in Hull. Our year anniversary CJ had assessments so we weren’t able to celebrate together.
On my birthday he had another assessment, so he had to stay in Hull, when it came to my birthday he wished me happy birthday at 6pm in the evening even though I’d spoken to him via text for most of the day.
Last August, Newday and Imagine fell in the same week – I really wanted to go to Newday as I had been in 2005, anyhoo because it was Chris’s 21st and I wanted to celebrate it with him as it’s a big deal. So with some assistance from the other Stewards at Imagine we managed to decorate the Control Room (the plan would have worked fine but CJ’s Dad kept sticking his nose in and trying to get it moved so that they could go back to the cottage)
Christmas and New Year 2006 was just screwed because he decided he would go to Hull with his folks even though he’d already “booked in” to go to the party that was organised for our friendship group from church.
This Valentines went bottoms up because I’d spent all day on my dissertation and so had Shakespeare coming out of my ears and CJ took me to see a performance of Shakespeare as a surprise – it would have been a nice surprise but theres only a certain amount I can take before my brain actually turned to mush – I ended up at Ummma’s because No90 wasn’t very welcoming and going home didn’t exactly inspire me either. (It was cool cos i went to Ummma’s and was bundled by the girlies for lots of hugs so i felt better then).
Our two year anniversary was also slightly short lived, as CJ’s friend died in a RTC (Road Traffic Collision) on the Monday night/Tuesday morning – so it wasn’t exactly a happy day.
So we get to my 21st, for the first time in years I had no lessons, lectures, rehearsals or assessments, so I notified my friends and organised to go to Tate Modern on the day of my birthday (admittedly I hadn’t invited CJ because I knew he would have CU and prep for Rock Solid that afternoon). On this same day Amalia annouced last week that we were going to have a rehearsal, so London is out of the question. During the same week CJ turned round and told me that, he hoped I didn’t want to celebrate my birthday on Saturday evening as he’d made plans – what happened to checking the calendar see if anything was already planned.















